Improve performance of column resizing mousemouse handler by debouncing

[bZichett]

Note: This pull request targets prosemirror documents with large table nodes

1. Could add a debounce to package dependencies instead of adding to utils

2. Might be nice to only debounce when detecting that the table node is "large enough". What the criteria is might be up to the developer. But regardless, even for small table nodes, the UI doesnt need to update as frequently. Also depending on use case, maybe it could be a throttle

The debounce time of 100ms seemed to be a "sweet spot" but it could also dynamically slow down according to table node size. I imagine that for very large tables, it should be even longer.

[bZichett]

Was thinking this should only start happening when the table is large enough. The UX is a bit less nice for no reason for very basic tables.